Mother, May I (song)

"Mother, May I" is a popular song, originating as a children's game and folk song. The exact origin and authorship of the song are unknown, but it has been a staple of children's playtime and educational settings for generations. It is primarily used to teach children manners, patience, and how to follow directions. The song typically features a child asking "Mother, may I [perform an action]?," and the "Mother" figure responds with either permission ("Yes, you may") or a request for a polite addition ("Yes, you may, if you say please"), or a denial with an alternative or reason.

The song's melody is simple and repetitive, making it easy for children to learn and sing. Variations in the lyrics and actions requested exist depending on regional tradition and individual preferences. Some versions incorporate counting as well, asking the child to take a specific number of steps. The educational value of the song extends beyond manners and also aids in developing listening comprehension and vocabulary.

While primarily a children's song and game, "Mother, May I" has occasionally been referenced or adapted in popular culture, sometimes with a darker or more ironic tone, contrasting with its innocent origins. These adaptations often play on the power dynamics implicit in the song's structure.