Manay Po

Manay Po is a Filipino expression used primarily by gay men to address or refer to older gay men, particularly those perceived as mentors, role models, or figures of respect within the gay community. It is a term of endearment and deference, roughly translating to "sister," "madam," or "auntie," depending on the context and the nuances intended by the speaker. The "po" is an honorific particle in Tagalog, used to show respect to elders or those in positions of authority. Thus, "Manay Po" is a respectful and affectionate way of acknowledging an elder or respected figure within the gay community. The term signifies not only respect but also a sense of kinship and shared experience. It reflects the familial bonds that often develop within marginalized communities. The use of "Manay Po" is deeply rooted in Filipino culture's emphasis on respect for elders and the creation of familial structures within communities. While mainly used by gay men, it can sometimes be used by other members of the LGBTQ+ community as well, depending on the specific social context.