Kare Baka

"Kare Baka" (カレバカ) is a Japanese slang term that combines the words "kare" (彼), meaning "boyfriend," and "baka" (馬鹿), meaning "fool" or "idiot." Thus, "kare baka" refers to a woman who is so obsessed with or devoted to her boyfriend that she acts foolishly or irrationally. It implies that the woman's judgment is clouded by her affection and that she may prioritize her boyfriend's needs and desires above her own well-being or common sense.

The term carries a negative connotation, suggesting that the woman is being overly dependent, naive, or even taken advantage of. It often implies that her behavior is embarrassing or annoying to others around her. The degree of the "foolishness" can vary, ranging from neglecting her friends and family to making poor financial decisions for the sake of her boyfriend.

While often used as a derogatory term, "kare baka" can also be used with a degree of affection or teasing, especially among close friends. However, its inherent meaning remains rooted in the idea of someone being excessively and perhaps blindly devoted to their partner. The male equivalent, though less common, could be described as a "kanojo baka" (彼女バカ), referring to a man who is similarly obsessed with his girlfriend.

The concept of "kare baka" reflects societal expectations and gender roles concerning relationships in Japan, highlighting the perceived imbalance when one partner's life revolves entirely around the other.