Perfect (Friend novel)

"Perfect" as it relates to the novel Friend by Diana Henstell, refers to the idealized and ultimately unattainable image of a friend that the protagonist, Beth, projects onto her new acquaintance, Miriam. The concept of "perfect" friendship becomes a central theme, exploring the dangers of unrealistic expectations and the fragility of relationships built on superficial perceptions.

Throughout the narrative, Beth sees Miriam as flawless and without any of the flaws she perceives in herself or her existing relationships. This idealization stems from Beth's own insecurities and her desire for validation. She elevates Miriam to a pedestal, attributing qualities of intelligence, beauty, and understanding that may not entirely reflect Miriam's true character.

The notion of a "perfect" friend is deconstructed as the story progresses. As Beth gets to know Miriam better, she inevitably encounters inconsistencies and imperfections that challenge her initial perception. These revelations lead to conflict, disappointment, and a gradual erosion of their friendship.

The novel uses the concept of a "perfect" friend as a vehicle to explore broader themes of self-esteem, social pressures, and the importance of accepting flaws in oneself and others. The pursuit of an unrealistic ideal ultimately proves detrimental to both Beth and Miriam, highlighting the value of genuine connection over superficial perfection.