Lavagance

Lavagance is a term, primarily found in online communities and occasionally in informal psychological discussion, used to describe a perceived performative or exaggerated display of emotions, particularly sadness or grief, for the purpose of attracting attention, sympathy, or validation from others. It suggests a manipulation of emotional expression, often characterized by dramatic or theatrical behavior that may not genuinely reflect the depth of the underlying feelings.

The concept differs from genuine emotional expression in that it implies a conscious or subconscious intent to garner a specific response from an audience. While those displaying "lavagance" may genuinely experience some degree of distress, the term suggests that the outward presentation is amplified and utilized for social gain.

Criticism of "lavagance" often centers on the idea that it trivializes genuine suffering and can be emotionally manipulative to those who offer support. It can also be seen as a form of attention-seeking behavior that disrupts or monopolizes social interactions. However, the term is often used pejoratively and can be applied unfairly, potentially dismissing legitimate emotional struggles as performative. Due to its subjective nature and potential for misinterpretation, the use of "lavagance" is often cautioned against in formal psychological contexts.