Backbiter

A backbiter is a person who habitually speaks ill of someone behind their back; a slanderer or defamer. The act of backbiting involves malicious gossip and the spreading of rumors or derogatory information about an absent individual, often in secret. It is generally considered a form of betrayal of trust and is widely regarded as socially unacceptable behavior.

Backbiting can stem from various motivations, including jealousy, resentment, insecurity, or a desire to elevate oneself by diminishing others. Unlike open criticism or confrontation, backbiting lacks directness and fairness, as the subject of the negative remarks is not present to defend themselves or offer their perspective. The clandestine nature of backbiting makes it particularly insidious, as it can damage a person's reputation and relationships without their knowledge or ability to respond.

The consequences of backbiting can be significant, affecting both the target and the perpetrator. The target may experience feelings of betrayal, anger, and social isolation. The perpetrator may suffer damage to their own credibility and reputation, as engaging in backbiting can erode trust and respect from others.

Synonyms for backbiter include:

• Slanderer
• Defamer
• Gossip
• Rumormonger
• Talebearer
• Whisperer

Backbiting is often contrasted with constructive criticism, which is intended to be helpful and offered directly to the person concerned, with the goal of improvement.