WhyNotBi

WhyNotBi refers to an attitude and, occasionally, a movement within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly among lesbians and gay men, that questions or challenges the validity, necessity, or desirability of bisexuality as a distinct sexual orientation. This attitude can manifest in various ways, ranging from subtle skepticism to outright biphobia.

Some proponents of WhyNotBi suggest that bisexual individuals are either secretly gay or lesbian (experiencing a phase or in denial) or primarily heterosexual but identifying as bisexual for perceived social advantages. This viewpoint often stems from a binary understanding of sexuality, assuming that individuals must be either exclusively attracted to the same gender or exclusively attracted to the opposite gender.

Arguments supporting the "WhyNotBi" perspective often cite concerns about:

• Sexual fluidity: While acknowledging that some individuals experience changes in their attraction over time, WhyNotBi proponents may use this to diminish the stability and validity of bisexuality as a concrete orientation.
• Relationship compatibility: The belief that bisexual individuals are inherently less trustworthy or more likely to cheat due to being attracted to multiple genders.
• Political motivations: Suspicions that bisexuality is a relatively recent concept driven by identity politics rather than genuine sexual attraction.

Criticism of the WhyNotBi viewpoint argues that it is a form of biphobia and contributes to the erasure of bisexual identity. Opponents emphasize that bisexuality is a legitimate and distinct sexual orientation, supported by research and the lived experiences of bisexual individuals. They also highlight the harm caused by invalidating bisexual experiences and perpetuating stereotypes. The acceptance and understanding of diverse sexual orientations are seen as essential for fostering inclusivity and equality within the LGBTQ+ community.