Cougar (slang)

A "cougar" is a slang term for a woman, typically middle-aged or older, who seeks sexual relationships with significantly younger men. The term carries connotations that can be both positive and negative, depending on the context and the individuals involved.

The origins of the term are debated, but it gained widespread popularity in the early 2000s. While some women embrace the label, seeing it as empowering and indicative of their confidence and sexual agency, others find it offensive and ageist, suggesting a predatory or desperate nature.

The age difference deemed necessary for a woman to be considered a "cougar" is subjective, but generally involves a gap of at least 8-10 years, with the woman being older. The term often implies a dynamic where the older woman is assertive and pursues the younger man, challenging traditional societal expectations regarding age and relationships.

The use of the term raises questions about double standards, as older men dating younger women are not typically labeled with a comparable term with the same level of social scrutiny. The term's prevalence reflects societal anxieties surrounding female aging, sexuality, and power dynamics. While some view "cougar" relationships as a positive expression of female empowerment, others see them as reinforcing negative stereotypes and perpetuating unequal power imbalances.